Just feel like ...
It time to start work on relationship with relatives.
If not, I gonna regret it in the future.
My oldest aunt of father side, had some children, and these children are my cousins. It would not be that much of an issues if they are around my age. But the fact is, they are way older than me, all of them had children around my age. According to the Generation or Hierarchy,Some of my cousin kid(niece/nephew) are around my age, some older. None the less, I am their uncle.
I even had a grand nephew, that make me grand uncle at the age of 21. LOL
Though we are relatives but we barely know each other. In-fact, it my first time met those niece and nephews when I went Holiday with my mum to Hainan last year.
If I never go, perhaps just maybe, in the next generation, the relationship probably could be cut off once the "elder" are not there....
My oldest aunt already 80-90+(not sure exact)
First Step to improve relationship with Relative:
1. QQ Communication
Doing it right now, communicate with my mother side cousin as well as father side, niece and nephew.
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